Brief sketches from a strange day
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sabotabbyI think everyone who becomes a teacher knows at some point that he or she will have to teach a sex ed lesson to a bunch of 13- and 14-year-olds, but I had no idea it would happen so soon in my career.
By utter chance, I ended up here today. I must be looking respectable and authoritative these days, even with my Soviet hat and skull mittens on a string, because lately whenever I go to a protest, random people want to interview me for the news. Today was especially strange, as I was like one of three non-Tamil people there, and obviously knew less than anyone else that could be plucked from the crowd.
But anyway, they were insanely happy at the idea of a non-Tamil joining in on the protest, so happy that it brought tears to my eyes because people who are currently scared shitless that their friends and relatives are being massacred in Sri Lanka were coming up to me and thanking me. Unreal.
Hundreds of people are being killed every day over there. It barely makes the news unless something like tonight's protest shuts down parts of the city.
On the way home, a nice young man on the subway who wanted bar recommendations in my neighbourhood asked me if I was old enough to drink. I suspect he was just flirting, but it still made me smile.
I'm on my annual Brecht/Weill kick, so please recommend to me your favourite covers of Brecht/Weill songs. I clearly don't have enough on my iTunes and it's the best commuting music ever.
Here is my least favourite Brecht/Weill cover ever, and high-octane nightmare fuel:
You can reset your brain afterwards with my favourite Brecht/Weill cover ever.
By utter chance, I ended up here today. I must be looking respectable and authoritative these days, even with my Soviet hat and skull mittens on a string, because lately whenever I go to a protest, random people want to interview me for the news. Today was especially strange, as I was like one of three non-Tamil people there, and obviously knew less than anyone else that could be plucked from the crowd.
But anyway, they were insanely happy at the idea of a non-Tamil joining in on the protest, so happy that it brought tears to my eyes because people who are currently scared shitless that their friends and relatives are being massacred in Sri Lanka were coming up to me and thanking me. Unreal.
Hundreds of people are being killed every day over there. It barely makes the news unless something like tonight's protest shuts down parts of the city.
On the way home, a nice young man on the subway who wanted bar recommendations in my neighbourhood asked me if I was old enough to drink. I suspect he was just flirting, but it still made me smile.
I'm on my annual Brecht/Weill kick, so please recommend to me your favourite covers of Brecht/Weill songs. I clearly don't have enough on my iTunes and it's the best commuting music ever.
Here is my least favourite Brecht/Weill cover ever, and high-octane nightmare fuel:
You can reset your brain afterwards with my favourite Brecht/Weill cover ever.
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Date: 2009-02-05 02:20 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2009-02-05 03:57 am (UTC)I mean, they acknowledge that non-heterosex happens. But the delivery of the sex ed, is still pretty heteronormative.
We focus on
1) The naming of parts. This bit is pretty non-heteronormative, in that it looks at the parts and how the male and female anatomy works in normative cases. We don't really talk about gender reassignment.
2) Health risks associated sexual activity and how to identify and mitigate them. A lot of stuff about pregnancy prevention goes here too. We do talk about safer sex for non-PIV activities, as well as the usual discussion of condoms, barriers, and hormonal contraception. Also NFP.
3) Sexual decision making, and healthy relationships. We do not assume that all sexual decision-making will take place in the context of opposite-sex relationships, and stay well away from assigning gender to the people making the decisions, so points there, I suppose.
That's the resources, though. A lot depends on the teacher--the can be totally heteronormative, as some of our reviewers were, or less so.